Sunday, May 20, 2018

365 LLC Days 138 - 140: Of Unloved Dresses, Spots In Town, & Unique Accessories

May 18, 2018

It's tough to think of pieces that are unloved in my wardrobe, each tend to be worn often and I try to tend and mend to them when I see something wrong with loose buttons or re~tacking bows. I suppose as of this time this is one of my least loved pieces after going through everything, this could change with the weather though.

May 19, 2018

One of my favorite things is to go off and out hiking or just leisurely waltzing through the trails, I hadn't realized there was a regional park nearby with some pretty interesting things to do and see. The one I'm looking at is fairly close and has a garden, a dam, and even a miniature train track and carousel. They also have an indoor ice rink that I sometimes go to but I never saw the regional park sign so I've never seen anything more then that. I can't believe I've missed all of this and that they even have a stable with horses to do a trail ride. I definitely need to make some sort of meet every now and then to do the different things available here.

May 20, 2018

Recently I've been speaking with a  few friends about my style, someone had said something about my style that had me kind of confused and questioning what they meant, and someone else told me that I really had a different eye for accessories. I know this is true but I never thought much about it being strange to this fashion, not very, just a more classic orientation then anything else. 

I guess this was a great time for sharing a photo of some of my more unique accessories, I couldn't choose just one and so I picked some of my top ones. Eyeglass chains, rosette chains and pins, one of my cameos - this one being the most oddly shaped, hair and mourning jewelry and other rose pins, and one of my newest hat pins, some of these are actual antiques and are fairly old while others are things I created or made for my brand.


These last few posts have been making me think a few things over and really reconsider pieces in my wardrobe, what I may have to let go of, things I may not love as much as I initially thought. I've already been having these feelings about a very select few but I've been hesitant because I still have nostalgic feelings from when I first bought them, in some ways they still make me happy but I just don't know if they make me feel good when I wear them. In regards to my own weird style it just throws me off that some people are thrown by it.

But I guess this is all for now, cheers! XOXO

Saturday, May 19, 2018

Of Afternoon Tea & Cathedral Tours

I've been very lucky lately with my local community being very active with some really fun and interesting meets. This last one was for an afternoon tea and tour for one of the most beautiful gothic revival cathedrals in the states, the tea was held up in one of the towers with a lovely view facing the gardens! I think the combination of who everything was such a lovely experience even though the weather has not really been on our side recently with the rain.

As it turns out, I've passed the cathedral several times while visiting a friend who lives in the area, the bus stop I would use is actually right down the street from it and yet I would barely see it as my view was always obscured by the trees around the grounds. It was amazing when I was finally able to see it, it's honestly a beautiful building and quite large to the point I'm surprised it could be hidden. The architecture of the building is neo~gothic with it's vaulted ceilings, pointed arches, and the way the building has certain parts that look like fortification; it resembles a medieval castle for sure.

There were so many beautiful details within that it was hard to appreciate all of it, it was as though I didn't know where to focus my eyes. And not only was the things within the building fascinating to behold but so was the history laced within with those who have stood in these halls before or were laid to rest here. Martin Luther King jr. gave one of his last sermons here and walked these very halls preaching about equality, Woodrow Wilson is buried here as well after passing from a stroke. There are also statues of Presidents Washington and Lincoln at the side entrances of the church, under stained glass that is made to look like fire.

The rose stained glass windows in particular were striking to take in, our docent was sure to remind us at different parts of the tour to look back at them to see how the colors changed throughout the tour. It wasn't such a huge difference but it was just enough to notice and enjoy the changes in colors. 

After all of that we were taken back through the cathedral to a hidden and small elevator, clearly meant for moving things, to take us up to one of the towers for afternoon tea. It actually took a bit of time to get to the top and we tried to get an elevator selfie while we waited (my arms are just too short). But once there we were whisked away to a little room with cute little tables set with our tea service. The sandwiches were actually more like little bites of art with how they were done and the only thing that looked like a tea sandwich was the egg salad sandwich, they were all quite pretty. They also had Devonshire cream for our scones!

When we nearly finished with our tea setting we did explore the corner of the tower that was ours, taking a few pictures of course, and discovered the Bishop's garden down below. The grounds are carefully manicured and maintained by a guild that has been doing so for 100 years, working closely with the cathedral's horticultural staff to tend to the landscape and preserve it's look. Before leaving, despite the rainy weather, I went frolicking through it to at least see what it was like and discovered all sorts of nooks and crannies.

The host of the meet encouraged everyone to do themed coordinates and everyone showed up with some variation of stained glass or things with gothic architecture within the print, I quickly knew I wanted to break out this baby. I thought the feathers and pearly gates would be a nice touch and added a sort of pink dotted tulle drape to the look to bring a splash of color as both my blouse and vest were white. Ever since acquiring this skirt I've wanted to make a cute vest to pair, it took me a bit of time to cut it all out and finally put it together but this put my butt into gear. I really did enjoy putting it together and would love to make a few more to throw in with the rest of my wardrobe.

I truly enjoyed going out for this meet, experimenting with a few colors I don't often wear, and taking tea up in a tower with friends. If another meet like this were to come along I would gladly jump in and I can't wait for the next meet. Cheers! XOXO

Friday, May 18, 2018

LBC: Share 5 Releases From When You First Got Into The Fashion

Oh the nostalgia! This prompt has certainly brought me back to some pretty garments in Lolita fashion history, it doesn't hurt that this one delves into the year I joined in. These are some of the ones I saw being released and took note of due to their high profile from people who really wanted them, got them, and mostly the ones I wanted for myself. My first two Wishlist dresses are on this list and though I couldn't manage to snag them when they first came out I did later on and still find them wonderful (though I would still love the music salon jsk in mint, I have it in black).

Btssb Music Salon jsk

One of the first dresses that ever really called my name and had me hooked to this fashion and was on my Wishlist for the longest time. I did manage to eventually get the op in black but I remember the mint and pink really blowing my mind. I don't think either cut was extremely popular but it pulled me by the heartstrings and played me like the fiddle on it.

Btssb Marie Antoinette

I did and still do enjoy the look of this piece, this screamed that rococo look that I would imagine Momoko meant when she spoke about how Lolita fashion looked. I do remember it being a bit different then what a lot of people were looking for as sweet was reigning supreme but it was so my style even then. (I should have taken the hint that classic and classic-sweet styles were my jam then) hopefully one day I'll pick this one up.


I remember this one in particular because of two main things, it has woodland creatures and they didn't look too cartoony. I remember liking the wreaths around the critters and thinking it was cute but really loving the cut and the ruffle in particular. I don't remember if it was popular or not but I remember a few years ago, around 2014 maybe, that it picked up in popularity a bit.

AP Toy Parade

I remember this one so well and I remember being so confused why so many people were going crazy over this print. Sweet really was at a high when I got to by my first piece and I was curious to try but there were some pieces I only thought looked cute on others, this is a prime example and I hope it makes whoever owns these very happy still.

Btssb Alice Trick Or Treat

This was the second garment that jumped high onto my Wishlist when I first got into buying and wearing the fashion and eventually bought as well. Again I bought the other cut of the jsk but I really wanted the black at first so at least I managed that, now I also want the cream which is very bizarre from when I first started. I remember a lot of people being confused because it was one of the first real seasonal prints, this hadn't really caused me to rethink my want of it though, it seemed more peculiar that so many people were confused by it.

So that's it for this post from me, I own two of the five though I think I would only really want to get the other Btssb piece on this list I don't have. If you're curious about what others have shared for the year they joined the fashion you can check them out in the links below!

Thursday, May 17, 2018

365 LLC Days 135 - 137: Of Uncatchable Trends, Ideal Interiors, & Favorite Eras

May 15, 2018

Hands down, I could never get into scepters outside of seeing them at cons or in extravagant photo shoots. These and random large spoons.

May 16, 2018

I could easily just use this photo and it would sum up some of my wants very easily. I would love to have a room with Victorian and Edwardian style furnishings for my sewing room. I could have a really nice, sturdy, sewing table with a cute upholstered chair with cute scrollwork at the top. Curtains for the room could be lovely heavy swathes of fabric held back with a cord and tassel in a wine red maybe. I would love to have a wardrobe set in this particular room with drawers for the fabric and then unfinished could be hung in the wardrobe. 

In one corner I could have a little hutch for my tea cups and pots, basically anything for a tea service, and then next to it I could have a water boiler like we have now in the kitchen. I’d also love to have a little sitting area nearby to sit by a window and be able to enjoy a spot of tea, as I do. It would be nice to have the ability to enjoy it in a way that doesn’t require me to weave around my ironing board that is sort of planted between a wall and the couch, as it is right now.

I have so many wants for my own personal space and want it to be covered with antiques, I just can’t help it. 

May 17, 2018

How I really want to focus this is on the aesthetics of different historical eras because that’s what I really like about different time frames. Clothing throughout the different time periods is honestly where it’s at for me and draws my attention because it is so eye catching and lovely, different cuts and drapes are amazing to see and each decade has something really wonderful to add and I can’t get enough. 

I do have a few favorites in particular, like the 1780s and then the 1890s just to name 2 that I tend to draw inspiration from, and of course the Rococo and Victorian periods certainly does it for me. I suppose not just in the fashion sense but the architecture and habits of people during those times.

Really, I know I’m being vague but there are too many snippets of history that I enjoy learning about that pointing out the fashions I like would be easiest and make for this short of a post. As for now, I’m off to bed, cheers! XOXO!

Monday, May 14, 2018

365 LLC Days 132 - 134: GLB Make~Up Tutorials, Wardrobe Pulls, & Fruit Inspired Coords

May 12, 2018

This is not very unlik my usual style but I figured to be a little more precise with my blouse, just focusing it not only closer to me eyes but not have it completely covering my cheeks. I also feel as though I don’t wear enough of it so I’m going to try to make it a shade darker then usual.

March 13, 2018

When it comes to my wardrobe it’s hard to pull something that doesn’t make me feel fabulous, this is why I haven’t really given anything up to sell very often. When I look at the clothes on their own I just feel happy and it’s seldom that when I put them on that I don’t feel good about it. With skirt though, I just sometimes feel a bit off. I don’t buy them for a reason unless I really like them and this was one that I truly enjoy the print but I just don’t enjoy the skirt as much as I’d like. I’m going to try and fix that by recoordinating it a few different ways to try and make it work for me. If after a bit it just isn’t working I’ll let it go but not without a bit more work.

May 14, 2018

I picked rhubarb because why not? I tried to go with like colors and patterns and thought Queen’s Coach really fit, especially with it’s vertical stripes. And as rhubarb has a sort of leafy green top I tried to go with a ruffle~y wide hat for the top and wide sleeves for the blouse. Maybe I’m reaching but I didn’t want to do just another strawberry or cherry.

I guess this is all for the evening though, I had a lot going on today and so I’m off to bed now, cheers! XOXO

Friday, May 11, 2018

365 LLC Days 129 - 131: Of Short Poems Of Frills, Paintings For Dresses, & A Nice Cup Of Tea

May 9, 2018

A touch of lace and frothy chiffon ruffles,
My heart is most often to flutter at a bustle,
And when a delicate bow is gracefully tied
I find my heart can't seem to lie.
For each and every dress I get
I find pieces to coord, like a duet. 

The thrill I get when I see elegant frills
Does indeed insight my heart to trill.
I wish to live like Momoko
and live my life going to and fro
with a bow placed neatly on my head,
and covered in frills when I am dead.

May 10, 2018

Gustave Dore did some pretty amazing work throughout his life and they fall in line with my love of frightful occult imagery. He drew one of the most prolific images of the Kraken and has done many other pieces that are easily recognizable to this day. I would love to have something like this printed on a dress and maybe I'll look into it and see if I can produce it myself, because why not. This particular piece is La Danse De Sabbat.

May 11, 2018

There really isn't a day I don't have a nice cup of tea but it's more of a pot of tea then just a cup. Today's leaves are green and I decided to have a few rose tea cookies with them. I find that it does add a little pep to my day to have tea poured into such pretty pieces and enjoy a little nip of it throughout the day. With a tea cozy it does stay warm enough so I don't have to worry about it getting so tepid and it can make it enjoyable for much longer. Lately, I've been taking my tea straight without milk or sugar - although I don't take mine with sugar unless I'm out - which I suppose is a good thing.

As I look I see it's a bit later than I had anticipated and I should publish this and get myself off to bed, it was a rather long day and I am ready to tip my hat over my eyes and sleep. Cheers! XOXO

LBC: Take A Coord You Wore For Winter And Re~Coord It For Spring

When this prompt was selected at the end of last week for the group I begun to quickly scroll through my phone and fb to see exactly what outfit I would like to recoordinate from a winter look to a more spring look. The fact quickly became apparent though that I don't often take pictures because though I wear daily I don't often wear make up and so we are left with quick mirror pics I take before heading out. In the end I came up with one that I managed to remember taking before heading out to the Murder in a Nutshell when it was down at the Renwick. 

For that particular day I wanted to go with the darker hues of the dress and really utilize the more gothic tones of the piece itself. Unseen are my black floral patterned stockings and my favorite pair of black spat booties and all of my jewelry were either covered in skulls or were mourning jewelry pieces, like my ring, locket, and the cameo at the collar.

To give it a more spring look I ditched all of the black and tried to use the brown, ivories, and topes in the print to bring about a more spring feel. Instead of mourning jewelry I went with pearls and chains, rosettes and a regular shell cameo, I also decked out my blouse with bows and threw on a hat covered in flowers. 

If you want to read more, from others, on this prompt from the Lolita Blog Carnival, you can check them out in the links below. If you're looking to join the LBC you can find out more from the description, here.